The most important thing to turn motivation into discipline in your fitness journey ( you’ll find this applies in other aspects of your life) is to give yourself purpose.
Every step you take & how you feel about it starts at the mind and so ‘doing’ isn't necessarily the only focus we should look at when working towards discipline.
Building a mindset that works isn't just about getting the result but rather building the best environment for you to thrive, the environment inside your head and outside.
Environment inside - Mindset that impacts our habits
Environment outside - Surroundings that impact our habits
To elevate yourself and level up your life, you need to assess your environment & daily habits that impact how you make all the micro-decisions throughout your day.
Environment Inside
The mindset almost always dictates the attitude you have approaching tasks, it dictates if you’ll half-ass your effort or if you’ll put in honest effort.
How we respond is depicted by what we believe to be true. Our brain finds evidence for what we believe – looking for a red car but expecting to remember how many blue cars you saw.
Not only are your results affected by your beliefs but the experience of your results.
With mindset we want to look at uncovering limiting beliefs - beliefs that impact us negatively. They’re there to protect us from pain and ‘death’.
When it comes to growth we need to have a look at those beliefs that are holding us back.
How to Shift Into Current Beliefs:
Identify current beliefs
E.g. “Fat loss is impossible for me”
Identify if they’re healthy or unhealthy by asking yourself “is it ____?”
E.g. “Is it logical?” - No
“Is it rigid?” - Yes
“Is it constructive or do I sabotage when it comes to how I feel?” - I sabotage
THEREFORE - Unhealthy Belief
3. Reverse engineer our common patterns (ABC)
Activating/Triggering event - Can be in your head or something that did happen
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Current Belief - What you tell yourself as a result of that
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Consequences - “I have a tendency to…” The consequence of your belief (can turn into a vicious cycle*)
Example:
Activating Event-
You overate at an event despite having been good all week
Belief-
“I’ll never lose weight because I want to enjoy events I go to & I can’t diet and lose weight”
Consequence-
I tend to feel defeated, starved of my favourite foods and bloated so I give up for now, tell myself I’ll start the following Monday cutting out the same foods I binged CONSEQUENTLY I feel restricted all week binge the following opportunity I get & hence reinforcing the belief
Healthier approach:
A – You overate at an event despite having stuck to your tracking all week
B – This event is an opportunity for me to reflect and learn how I choose to eat at events like these since I know I go to events with unplanned foods at least once a week.
C – Fuels desire to show up with more clarity and to improve, analyse your strategies and assess them, now you feel more secure when you go to events and hence don’t binge now
Choose our belief set, intentionally replacing old beliefs
It’ll take practice to shift the consequences which now may feel out of our control – you moving on autopilot. It will feel uncomfortable doing this and feelings will be the last thing to change.
See how by breaking the belief system, we’re stopping a terrible cycle that reinforces a belief that doesn’t benefit us and instead brings us down when you could allow for a learning opportunity to fuel you and allow for growth.
Environment Outside
This is where we assess our external environment & how we let others influence our actions.
This will look like assessing the boundaries we have with ourselves and others (or lack thereof).
How to set boundaries:
Identify a habit you currently want to change.
E.g. “I currently have a habit of sleeping at 12am-1am”
Establish what you want that habit to change into.
E.g. “I want to sleep at 10pm”
Assess what tendencies you have surrounding your current habit.
E.g. “I tend to go to bed at around 11pm after watching a few episodes of a show, then I spend time in bed watching reels until I feel sleepy and so I tend to fall asleep around 12am to 1am”
Set a strategy to work on improving those external influences on your current habit. Make sure you’re realistic with this step, baby steps are far more successful than cold turkey methods. Do this consistently for 1-2 weeks.
E.g. “I will set a 1hr alarm for 12am and get used to getting off my phone the minute the alarm goes off”
Assess how you went for the past 1-2 weeks and progress/regress accordingly as many times as needed until you reach the goal habit.
E.g. “I will set a 45-minute alarm for 11:45pm and commit to getting off my phone the minute the alarm goes off”
2 weeks later
E.g. “I will set a 30-minute alarm for 11:30pm and commit to getting off my phone the minute the alarm goes off”
2 weeks later
E.g. “I will commit to watching only 2 episodes before getting into bed instead of 3 and continue to get off my phone the minute the 30-minute alarm goes off at 10:45pm”
2 weeks later
E.g. “I will commit to watching only 1 episode before getting into bed instead of 2 and continue to get off my phone the minute the 30-minute alarm goes off at 10pm”
Notice how you get to where you want to be in just about 2 months as opposed to spending the whole year saying how you “want to sleep earlier”, and “never can” and “don’t know why” and blame external factors instead of committing to actually taking the small step that in the moment may seem insignificant.
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